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Emergency funds
The buffer that stops one bad month becoming one bad year: how much you need, where to park it so it is there on the day, and why it comes first.
18 min
Lending to relatives, saying no without losing the person, and the arithmetic of being the first earner in a home where money is shared. Warm and specific.
3 lessons · about 23 minutes · written for reading age 13 · last checked 2026-08-12
Why money lent inside a family so often stays lent, why the promise to return it next month is rarely a lie, and what the lender actually pays.
8 min
Two versions of the same refusal — one costs a relationship and one does not. The difference is timing, and whether the no is about you or a verdict about them.
7 min
Funding your own later life while supporting the generation above you — what a first earner in a joint home is really carrying, and the quiet trade inside it.
8 min
4 questions at the end. Every wrong answer explains itself.
Dated commentary on this topic — a Budget change, a new rule, a scam pattern.
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The buffer that stops one bad month becoming one bad year: how much you need, where to park it so it is there on the day, and why it comes first.
18 min